i heard this on fly.fm this very morning:
problem:miss confuse is in love with her besfren's boyfren for the past 3 years and she kept it only to herself. but last week, this guy hit on her and said that he is willing to leave his galfren to be with miss confuse. miss confuse doesnt know what to do.
and 99.99% callers said, dont go for the relationship.
what would i say to miss confuse?
first of all, u are stupid for falling in love with ur besfren's bf. there is a code in frenship which say, never ever ever falling for ur besfren's man. since u've been single for the past 3 years bcoz of him, doesnt it shows that you are hoping for something to happen?
secondly, once you know that they are now a couple, arent you suppose to just forget about him?i know, you may say that he stole ur heart and blablabla.but the point is, she's ur besfren for goodness sake!
thirdly, if ur besfren doenst mind u going out with him, which i doubt it, isnt it going to be awkward when the three of u hang out together?there are a lot of attractive men out there, why do you have to mess up with ur life, ur frenship n ur heart?
last but not least, if he can dump his galfren for u, it's not impossible for him to dump u for another gal.and what kind of man is he to has no hard feeling to jeopardize ur frenship with ur fren?he's a dick.and u r an idiot for even considering the options.