as for me to write this post is not saying that i'm the expert in this matter nor have lots of experience about it, but just wanna share things that i've been seeing these past few years of my life. no man is an island. so mmg heaven la when we are in a relationship and thingies like that, as said in my
poem.
tapiii, on that ninth cloud, we tend to do mistakes. so, what are the common mistakes done by couple?
mistake #1
we said we will accept them as the way they are. but once they change a bit, we ask,"why you are different than before?". pasir kat pantai pun blh berubah, nh kan plak manusia. ape lah salahnye pahamkan dorg sikit and try to be the best for them BUT only to those yg deserve to be treated that way la kn. kalu prangai cam setan, blh brambos la ak nk jd angel tok ko.
mistake #2
once the trust is broken, there is no way to patch it back altogether. ive learned my lesson here. kalu da dasar xleh caya n dok curang je, mmg leh mampos. maybe la you all akan ckp,'xpe, i'll gve u one more chance.' tapi tanye la diri sndri, korg kompem ke leh caya blk kt dia? xda sekelumit rase was2 pn?
mistake #3
org slalu ckp laki nh kejam kat pmpuan. tp xsume cmtuh. kadang2 drg jd cmtu because we let them to be one. kalu dr mula2 lagi ko dok asek angguk2 je dia ckp pape, mmg nek lemak la.
mistake #4
standard sentence, 'treat people the way you want them to treat you'. enough said i think.
mistake #5
dlu tme lom kapel, geng bukan men ramai. mne2 p ngan geng. tang da ad kapel, geng pn tah kmane. lupe kwn. lupe tme dia sunyi, kwn tpt dia ngadu, tpt dia ronggeng. bile da clash, br terpiat2 crk kwn blk. kalu ak, mmg buang mase aaa ak nk kutip ko blk kn.
mistake #6
ckplah kite da ader makbapak tok kongkong (nt applicable to everyone). ko tayah la nk tmbah2 plak. nh smpi nk g lpak ngan kwn pn xleh. tmbh2 plak member opposite sex. bukan ko sorg je jantan or tina yg idop sbg makhluk Allah tuh.
mistake #7
bg password. not my style. maybe for others but not me. gle xda privacy dah. nt saying that ive the possibility of cheating ke ape but let say la ur frens r talkin bout gossip that shudnt be out and it happens that the gf/bf of urs ngah cek2 emel or fb, xke kantoi? or even worse, malu kot. i mean, on behalf of ur frens la. pastu kang ble da clash, xsmpat nk tuka password, dpt lak gf/bf yg gle, dia wat taik kt korgnye emel or fb. xke naye?
mistake #8
dialah dunia ko skng. parents family tolak tepi. palehotak ko.
ok abes idea da wt mse nh. maap ler atas kekasaran di atas. post ini ditulis atas dasar geram dan nan tika mood tgh tak baek.
till next time!
oh btw, sume di atas adalah berdasarkan my observations and self-experience (some). maka kalu rse xstuju tu, xdahal pn. view masing2 kn? janji kome bahagia
"it is human to err"
